做人千万不能总是想着改变自己，而去迎合别人的喜好，通常那些迎合别人的人，都会丢掉真正属于自己的人生。
A person must not always want to change themselves, and to cater to the preferences of others, usually those who cater to others, will lose their own life.
虽然这个世界上大家都喜欢那些免费的东西，但是几乎没有人会好好地去珍惜它，所以，在感情里也是这样，你越是没有底线的对一个人好，你的付出就会显得越廉价，因为别人可以毫不费力地得到你的好，而你就成为了那个最不被珍惜的老好人了。
Although everyone in this world like things free, but almost no one would have a good to cherish it, so, so also in the feelings, the more you no line of a person is good, your efforts will appear more cheap, because people can easily get your good, and you become the most cherish the nice guy.
请一定要谨记，不要在深夜的时候做任何的决定，因为那个时候的人最是敏感，最是脆弱，感性大于理性，所以那个时候特别容易失去理性做一些让你第二天早上醒来后特别后悔的事情。
Please remember, do not make any decision in the middle of the night, because people at that time are the most sensitive, the most fragile, emotional than rational, so it is very easy to lose rationality and do something that you will regret the next morning when you wake up.
其实生活中有些事情，你越是不去接受面对它，那么它就会让你越痛苦，可是你一旦接受了，你就会发现，其实好像也不过如此罢了。
In fact, there are some things in life, the more you do not accept to face it, then it will make you more painful, but once you accept, you will find that it is just like that.
不管是生活还是工作中，说任何的话，做任何的事都不要太绝对，因为你在给别人留台阶的同时，其实也是在给你自己留一个后路，这个世界上没有什么事情是绝对的，都会随着时间的变化而变化。
No matter in life or work, don be too absolute in anything you say or do. When you leave steps for others, you are also leaving a way back for yourself. Nothing in this world is absolute, and it will change with time.
作为成年人，你应该知道哪些你发出去没有回复的消息，或者是含糊其辞的回答，其实都是在拒绝，在现在这个大家手机不离手的时代，有谁会忙到从早到晚没有一点时间看手机呢？
As an adult, you should know that the messages you send without a reply, or the vague answers you give, are all rejections. In this age of mobile phones, who is too busy to check their phone from morning till night?
现实告诉我们，如果你被别人占了便宜还口口声声说没事的话，那你才是最蠢的那个，可能你自己以为你是宽容，不想与别人计较，但是在那些人眼里就只会觉得你老实好欺负，所以像这样的事情，还会有下次，无数次。甚至后来他们还会变本加厉，我想作为一个成年人，我们要管好自己，不去占别人便宜，但是更要保护好自己不被别人欺负。
The reality tells us, if you were taken advantage of by others but also said nothing, that you are the most stupid, you may think you are tolerant, do not want to quarrel with others, but in the eyes of those people will only think you honest good bully, so like this thing, there will be the next time, countless times.
I think as an adult, we should manage ourselves well and not take advantage of others, but we should protect ourselves from being bullied by others.
结语：人这一生就是要不断的努力学习，超越自己，不要因为现在取得了一点小小的成绩，就自我感动，更可怕的是觉得自己已经够努力了，从而停滞不前其实你有没有想过在你变厉害的同时，那些比你厉害的人也不是傻子，他们更不会停在原地等你。
Conclusion: people this life is to study hard, go beyond yourself, don cry because it is now got a little achievement, moved themselves, it is more terrible feel hard, enough to stagnant actually has it ever occurred to you while you get ill, those people badly than you aren fool, they will not stop in situ waiting for you.
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