一、可是感情不是你想要就会有,更不会按照你所有的设想去发展,不管是陪在身边,还是分居两地,都会有各自的烦恼和忧愁。爱一个人,有很多不同的方法,有的是用嘴巴说出来,一次次的重复说我爱你。有的是用态度来爱,撒娇发脾气折腾人,还有一种是怎么都不愿说我爱你,但就是关心你照顾你保护你。相爱的方法有千万种,但最好的方法只有一种,那就是对你好,并且只对你好。But feelings are not what you want to have, not to mention that they will not develop according to all your assumptions. Whether they are with you or separated from each other, they will have their own worries and worries. There are many different ways to love a person, some of which are to say it with your mouth and repeat it over and over again. Some are attitudes to love, spoiled and angry, others are not willing to say I love you, but care about you to take care of you and protect you. There are millions of ways to love, but the best way is to be kind to you, and only to you.
二、不要总是对过去念念不忘,未来还有很长一段路需要你勇敢地走下去。有时候,人的思想其实是不自由的,因为外物无时无刻不在试图塑造你,他们逼迫你接受主流的审美、接受声音最大的人的看法——即使那不合逻辑、不符合人性、完全违背你的利益。但是真正的你只要还有一息尚存,总会试着发出微弱的声音。Don always remember the past. Theres still a long way to go in the future. Sometimes, peoples thoughts are not free, because objects are trying to shape you all the time. They force you to accept the mainstream aesthetics and the views of the most vocal people - even if it is illogical, inhumane and totally against your interests. But the real thing is that as long as you have a breath left, you will always try to make a weak voice.
三、向来没耐心的我,在你身边徘徊了这么久,任凭风吹也无法忘记你的名字。而你,于我而言,就是美的非人间有,世间尤物。河畔边的你,欣赏着姹紫嫣红的春色,不经意间流露出比春色还暖的笑意,这唯美的笑,映入了我的眼帘,映入了我的心。I have always been impatient, wandering around you for so long, even if the wind blows, I can not forget your name. And you, to me, are the non-human beings of beauty, the special things in the world. Riverside you, enjoying the purple and red spring, inadvertently showed a warm smile than spring, this beautiful smile, reflected in my eyes, reflected in my heart.
四、是自己想要的,就大胆去追求。将军百战死,懦夫胯下生。你若不狠点,世界就会对你残忍。鼓起勇气勇敢前进。前进只需要一个理由,后退却有千百个理由。If you want it, go after it boldly. The general died in a hundred battles, and the coward was born. If you don be tough, the world will be cruel to you. Take courage and go ahead bravely. There is only one reason to move forward, but there are thousands of reasons to retreat.
五、就像有的人觉得很庆幸微信不像qq一样没有访客记录,不然的话,那些小心思太容易曝光,我们都需要一定的私人空间,更需要按照自己的节奏生活。生命中总有这样一些话,眼里流泪,可你得笑着听;生命里也总有一些时刻,肝肠寸断,可你必须挨过。《我的青春谁做主》Just like some people feel very lucky that Weixin doesn have visitor records like qq, otherwise, those careful thoughts are too easy to expose, we all need some private space, and we need to live at our own pace. There are always such words in life, tears in your eyes, but you have to laugh and listen; there are always moments in life when your heart is broken, but you have to go through them. "My Youth Who Makes the Decision"
六、我惊讶于文字的魔力,生硬的文字可以素描出暖色温馨的情景,可以拼凑出山水两茫茫的悠远,可以婉转成世态炎凉人心难测的现实。我习惯用文字诉说生活中的伤感,感情中的凄凉,和雨夜中的独自忧伤。看过往寂寞的文字演绎华丽的忧伤,落舞淡淡的愁情。冷凝成一枚孤独的瘦月,在字行间寻找最冷漠的独白,然后行走在慢慢消失中…I am surprised by the magic of words. Hard words can sketch warm scenery, can piece together two vast distances of mountains and rivers, and can euphemistically turn into the reality that the world is so cool and unpredictable. I used to use words to express the sadness in life, the sadness in feelings, and the loneliness in rainy nights. See the lonely words of the past deduce gorgeous sadness, light melancholy. Condensed into a lonely thin moon, between lines to find the most indifferent monologue, and then walk in the slowly disappearing.
七、好马不吃回头草,可我根本没有草吃。有些伤口,无论过多久,依然一碰就痛;有些人,不管过多久,也还是一想起就疼。如果有一天、我变得更冷漠了、请记得、我曾经要人陪的时候你都只说忙……如果有一天、我变得目中无人了、请记得、曾经也没有人把我放在心里…… 如果有一天、我不再在乎你了、请记得、曾经也没人听过我的心事…… 如果有一天、我不再对你笑了、请记得、你曾经也没有问我过得快不快乐。Good horses don eat grass, but I don eat grass at all. Some wounds, no matter how long they last, still hurt when touched; others, no matter how long they last, still hurt when remembered. If one day, I become more indifferent, please remember, when I was accompanied by important people, you only said busy…… If one day, I become invisible, please remember, no one ever put me in mind…… If one day, I no longer care about you, please remember, no one ever heard of my mind…… If there is one day, I no longer care about you, please remember, no one ever heard of my mind…… God, I no longer laughed at you, please remember, you never asked me how happy I was.
八、在我们之间,我终于学会了话少和不再打扰。若深情总是被辜负,余生尽是孤独又何妨。一切美好的事物都是曲折地接近自己的目标,一切笔直都是骗人的,所有真理都是弯曲的,时间本身就是一个圆圈。Between us, I finally learned to talk less and stop interrupting. If deep feelings are always disappointed, whats wrong with being lonely for the rest of your life? All good things are tortuously close to their goals, all straightness is deceptive, all truth is curved, time itself is a circle.
九、想做的事情去做就好啦,失败了就重头再来就好啦,害怕别人的眼光,害怕流血受伤,害怕被嘲笑,害怕一事无成,可是路还长着呢,自己的人生不做自己想做的事情,如何能成功呢?心累的时候,换个角度看世界;压抑时,换个环境深呼吸;困惑的时候,换个角度去思考;犹豫时,换个思路去选择。换个角度,世界就是另外的样子。Do what you want to do. If you fail, do it again. Fear of other peoples eyes, fear of bloodshed, fear of being laughed at, fear of accomplishing nothing. But there is still a long way to go. How can you succeed if you don do what you want to do in your life? When you are tired, look at the world from another angle; when you are depressed, look at the world from another angle. Take a deep breath in another environment; when confused, think from another angle; when hesitating, choose from another way of thinking. In another way, the world is different.
十、 虽然现实中生活总不完美,总有辛酸的泪,总有失足的悔。生活亦很完美,总让我们泪中带笑,悔中顿悟。要看生活是否完美,那么你就要选择淡视那些不完美,放大那些可能的完美。Although life is always imperfect in reality, there are always bitter tears and regrets for mistakes. Life is perfect too. It always makes us laugh in tears and realize in regret. To see if life is perfect, you have to choose to ignore those imperfections and magnify those possible perfections. & lt; br /& gt;
十一、时光一逝永不回,往事只能回味,每个人一生中都会有个他被深藏。往后余生,愿我们不负生活,善待自己。愿你所有的努力都不白费,所想的都能如愿,所做的都能实现,愿你往后路途,深情不再枉付。Time never goes back, the past can only be recalled, everyone will have a deep hidden in his life. For the rest of our lives, I hope we will live a good life and treat ourselves well. May all your efforts be in vain, all your thoughts and deeds be fulfilled, and all your affections will never be wasted.
十二、这个社会很公平,它从来都不会把靠自己的人饿死。谁懂寒雨纷纷,醉倒在天涯的绝望。不懂选择,再努力也难以成功,不懂积累,再挣钱也难以大富,不懂行动,再聪明也难以圆梦,不懂满足,再富有也难以幸福,不懂养生,再治疗也难以长寿。This society is fair. It never starves people who depend on themselves. Who knows the despair of cold rain and drunkenness on the horizon? No choice, no effort, no success, no accumulation, no money, no action, no wisdom, no dream, no satisfaction, no wealth, no happiness, no health, no treatment, no longevity.
十三、在一回首间,才忽然发现,原来,我一生的种种努力,不过只为了周围的人对我满意而已。为了搏得他人的称许与微笑,我战战兢兢地将自己套入所有的模式所有的桎梏。走到途中才忽然发现,我只剩下一副模糊的面目,和一条不能回头的路。In a look back, I suddenly found that, originally, all my efforts in life, but only for the satisfaction of the people around me. In order to win the praise and smile of others, I tremblingly put myself into all the shackles of all modes. On the way, I suddenly found that I only had a blurred face and a road that could not be turned back.
十四、时间是一把戳穿虚伪的刀,它验证了谎言,揭露了现实,淡化了承诺,你只要问心无愧的做人,一切自有命运安排。当你感觉被欺骗,被敷衍,束手无策的时候, 学会淡然一笑,该来的总会来!看淡得失,倘若认真,你就输了!Time is a knife to puncture hypocrisy. It proves lies, exposes reality and weakens promises. All you have to do is live with a clear conscience and have your own destiny. When you feel deceived, perfunctory and helpless, learn to smile indifferently, and you will always come! Look at the pros and cons. If you are serious, you will lose!
十五、生命从一开始就在倒计时,不要让无谓的琐事耗费有限的生命燃料。不值得做的事情,最好不做或尽量少做。因为那样不仅浪费时间和精力,还会给自己释放“忙碌”的错误信号,让你得到表面的自我慰藉和虚幻的满足。等你清醒过来,就会发现该做的事情都还没有做,而岁月的沧桑早已爬满脸颊。Life counts down from the beginning. Don let trivial things consume limited life fuel. What is not worth doing is best not to do it or to do it as little as possible. Because it not only wastes time and energy, but also releases the wrong signal of "busy" to you, so that you can get superficial self-comfort and illusory satisfaction. When you wake up, you will find that you haven done anything yet, and the vicissitudes of the years have already covered your cheeks.
十六、如今的我,谈不上幸福,也谈不上不幸。 一切都会过去的。 在所谓“人世间”摸爬滚打至今, 我唯一愿意视为真理的,就只有这一句话。 一切都会过去的。Now I can talk about happiness or misfortune. Everything will pass. Up to now, the only thing I would like to see as truth is this sentence. Everything will pass.
十七、 如果不合适,千万别将就。将就,只会恶心了自己,耽误了别人。没找到合适的,不要谈恋爱,继续酷下去。没娶的别慌,待嫁的别忙,经营好自己,珍惜当下时光,一切该来的总会到。怕什么,岁月漫长,你心地善良,终会有一人陪你骑马喝酒走四方。If its not appropriate, don do it. Will, will only disgust themselves, delaying others. If you don find the right one, don fall in love and keep cool. Don panic if you don marry, don busy if you want to marry, manage yourself well, cherish the present time, everything will come. Afraid of what, the years are long, you are kind-hearted, there will eventually be a person to accompany you on horseback and drink around.