前一种自然而然不必多虑，既然留不住，那就不值得了。而后一种情况往往很棘手，被背叛的人会陷入无尽的纠结与游离，还要受诸多外部因素的影响。
The former is naturally not worth worrying about. Since you can keep it, its not worth it. The latter situation is often very difficult. The betrayed people will fall into endless entanglement and dissociation, and will also be affected by many external factors.
事实上，当一段感情出现问题的时候，最好的办法是适当地“拆散”，给对方一个空间和时间。
In fact, when a relationship has problems, the best way is to "break up" appropriately and give each other a space and time.
回头看，一切都好如旧，却都物是人非。
Looking back, everything is as good as old, but things are different.
大家都知道，越难得到的，越会被珍惜。假如当初尤佳妮轻而易举地被王彦霖攻陷，如今的形势如何，谁也不能保证。
As we all know, the harder it is to get, the more it will be cherished. If youjiani had been easily captured by Wang Yanlin, no one could guarantee the current situation.
现在是在这个时刻，是最黑暗的夜晚，最严寒的冬天，但是你要知道，光明终会到来，暖春终会到来，熬过这一段时间，你就能看到曙光，看到春天。
It is now at this moment, the darkest night and the coldest winter, but you should know that the light will come and the warm spring will come. After this period of time, you can see the dawn and spring.
比起别人，独处不过是一个选择而已，这种选择，也是在千辛万苦之后的一个决定。
Compared with others, being alone is just a choice. This choice is also a decision after thousands of hardships.
